Beyoncé Advice On How to Be More Feminine
Lessons from Beyoncé on the Power of Sexuality
It is possible to be sexy, sexual, and sensual at the same time as being a respected, and successful woman! Beyoncé is a perfect example that embodies it all.
I can not tell you how many times I have debated with myself over how much I should disclose about my sexuality. How much of my sexuality to show! I have been thinking that it might reduce my credibility as a sex therapist, speaker, writer, and a coach. Something inside me was fearful of other people’s reactions, especially those who view sexuality as promiscuity and immorality.
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I remember the moment when I told myself ‘Stop’. It was the time when I was listening to “The Strangest Secret” by Earl Nightingale. He said something very profound; “We become what we think about!”, and this caused an intense reaction in my mind. If I resist my sexuality, I will never be a sexual woman.
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If you do not embrace your sexuality, and take pride in wearing it all the time, you can not expect to play with it, or play with your lover. It is like carrying seeds in your pocket, and coming back to your farm every day, hoping to see that something has grown. You have to plant the seeds, water them, nurture them, and love them.
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I want to express my sexuality through my work, writing, art, videos, appearance, and language. I refuse to feel ashamed, or embarrassed about showing it. I do not want to hide it, because it is a huge part of who I am. Sexuality is power and energy, a guiding force to our lives, including myself.
I have realized that I can not, and will not hide my sexuality because I am so incredibly proud of it. I know deep in my soul that anyone can be a career woman, and still embrace their sexuality. You can also be a mother, still you can nurture and grow the sensual part of your feminine power.
Sexuality Is Your Power
Sexuality is a power which we all have deep within us. Some people may not be ready to unleash and embrace this part of themselves. However, this does not mean you have to be ashamed, or feel guilty for embracing yours. I work very hard for my body. I eat, clean, exercise, and feed it with spiritual energy. I am in love with my body. I do not care how I look in comparison to someone else, because there is no one else like me. I am proud and fearless, I am unique.
I recently saw Beyoncé’s re-appearance in the public eye after she had given birth. It makes me love and appreciate her even more after seeing her celebrating her own sexuality and personal power after becoming mother. Her video entitled “Partition” was especially noteworthy. The power of her message was:
“Just because you become a mother doesn’t mean that you lose who you are.”
Many women might disagree because they have not yet found who they are as a sexual being. The reasons as to WHY may be rooted behind certain beliefs or childhood upbringing. Counselling sessions may provide opportunities to explore the discovery of the power of their sexuality.
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“Getting back to my personal sexuality, being proud of growing up, it was always important for me to express that side of me through music. I know that there are so many fabulous women who feel same after giving birth. You can have a child, still you can have fun and be sexy, still you can nurture your dream and live for yourself”.
“I don’t feel shameful about being sexual. I don’t feel embarrassed about it, rather I protect this side of me because I do believe that sexuality is the power we all have”.
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It is so amazing to have a body that is radiant and fluid after having a baby. Although, I feel sad when I hear that some women consider it as a social pressure to go back and achieve a sexy body after pregnancy.
Own the Power of Sexuality
It should be your personal choice. Whatever decision you make, it should be completely yours, regardless of whatever you hear, see, or read. It is where the power of sexuality comes into the scene – once you own it, it becomes you, regardless of your marital status, career, position, jeans size, nationality, or age.
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Once you’ve had a chance to read, I’d love to know: what makes you feel feminine? What everyday things you do that remind you that you’re a woman.
No matter what you’re facing right now, there is an adventurous journey ahead. You can use your heart, courage, and dedication to find a way or make a way. It all comes to how bad you want to make it happen.
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